Masculinity defined – How to Become a MAN in a feminised society

Becomming a man is what you NEED to do. When you read those words that I am typing at this moment then you need to. There is a reason you found me. And there is a reason those words found you.

Something in your life is not going the way it should. Maybe you can’t point your finger on what it is but there is certainly something that is not right. It is the lack of masculine Energy in your life. The lack of masculinity. The lack of direction.

What is your life worth living for?

If you are like most man, probably not much. You NEED to find your path/ purpose/ direction in life. Otherwise your Life will be dead and meaningless.

Suggestions on how to find your purpose in life:
– Self discovery: Discover yourself. Travel where you want. Follow your calling and go whereever your heart tells you to go. Life a life where you are actually ALLIVE, and not only a dead shell.
– Write your life down: It is valueble to track what you do on a daily basis. Write a Blog, a diary or just some short stories. You will discover sides of yourself that you weren’t even aware of. Follow your emotions and what they tell you. Accept what happened and be exited for the future adventures that you will take
– What do your emotions tell you: Are you focused on the outside world? Or on your inner feelings? Your emotions and your own energy. If you spend to much time in the outer world you let the option of others and outside circumstances define who you are. Don’t get lost in that trap. Listen to yourself first, before you listen to anyone else. Discover your own emotions and feel inside your body for at least 10 minutes a day.

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How To Keep Your Valuebles Safe – Stash Your Cash

It is human nature wanting to have the ability to hide certain things and keep them at a place where no one (especially strangers) are unable to find them. For me this was certainly always the case. When I was younger I was always looking out for places where no one would expect to find certain things. And I was always very pround when I found a nice hideout.

Things didn’t change when I got older. Just the hideouts did. I want to be as open and transperent as possible. The more you are in alignment with yourself, the less you have to hide. The less nervous you get when your friends or family want to check what you have in your shelf, your phone (or your browser history). The less of a creap you are the less you get in panic when someone takes your phone in his hands (and the less you have to clean your browser history).

However there is things you dont want people to have an imidiate look at or get their hands one and soon as they enter your room. Money would be an example. Other things would be an example as well. Having good places to stash what’s impostant to you and what you don’t necessarily want everyone to see are mandatory. Here you have a couple of things that keep your secrets a secret.

May Vary – Book Diversion Safe

First things first. If you have a couple boos laying around this gadget is perfect for you. It has a good size to hide a good amount of stuff in it. You can easily fit youpassport in it, put some bank cards into it and stash your cash. Its pretty much invisible if you put it next to your other books. Especially when its on the bottom of your shelf. Or even better. Put some of your old books in a box and put this book with your stahed valuebles in it. No one will ever find it and you will have it ready when the time comes.

Phillips Head Screwdriver Security Container – Diversion Safe Stash Safe

Another amazing gadget to hide your stuff is this realistic looking screwdriver. You open it and you can put your stuff inside. In comparison to the book this screwdriver is better for smaller things. You wont be able to hide your ID or your bank card in it. This Safe is perfect for pills, powders or smaller amounts of cash.

Note: While the screwdriver looks very realistic you can not actually use it to screw. Put it next to some tools and no one will see a difference though.



Lighter Stash Spot Diversion Safe

No one will notice that this little lighter is in fact meant to keep your things hidden. It is perfect for useing it for smaller things. Once you get used to it you don’t want to put your hands off of it ever again. I barely leave my house without this lighter anymore. You can use it to hide powders, little notes or pills in it. It is not meant for paper money even id the piture suggests otherwise.

Can Diversion Stash Container + Free Pack of 1 1/4 Rasta Wrap

Love this one. It looks like regular industrial oil and is pretty much invisible when you put it next to other household items. Smear a little bit of oil on the box and it will make it look even more realistic. You can fit a lot of your valuebles inside and it is perfect for using it to keep your jewellery, ID or your cash hidden. No one will assume that this little box is in fact a stash for your secret things.

The Importance Of Sales And Finding Your Purpose

Sales is important. Probably one of (if not the) most important things in life. Sales and negotiation is what you do each and every day. You can’t escape it. Unless you are a buddist monk or live withdrawn from society as a hermit you are surround by sales each and every day.

Negotiation starts when you are very young. You want your parents to buy you that delicious looking icecream even though they want you to get away from the sweets. As you get older your values are changing. You want to stay out longer. You want more pocket money and drive the car of your parents.

If you are applying for a new job you better know how to sell yourself. If you can’t then better be prepared flipping burgers for a living or at least working in a position that is far below your potential and actual skills.

How you sell yourself, how you communicate your ideas and values to others is in direct relation to what you will get out of life. And besides the importance of Sales and negotiation people are to busy numbing down themselves watching television and distracting themselves with short internet clips and other adrenaline shots. (I hope I’m not talking about you!)

Personally Sales is my passion. I want to share my passion with you and hope you get a lot of Ideas and concepts to integrate in your own life and increase the quality of your life drasticly. Do you know your passion? I discovered mine recently. I will tell you specfics about it in an future post. What I want to tell you so far is that knowing your lifes purpose is an amazingly life enhanceing feeling.You feel on a mission. You know what do do on a daily basis. Progres is what makes you happy. And you are not a leave in the wind anymore. (I’ve been most of my life and I hated it!)

I am in the Sales Business.Not an expert by any means. Thats not a bad thing though as I will document my journey as open and transparent as possible. You are a part of my journey. The Internet as big. And people get together, share there experiences and are able to profit from each other in a win-win situation. I strongly hope that I increase your life quality with the post I write (as with podcasts and videos that I will most likely do in the future).

I have different businesses going on. Some I will not directly write about – offline businesses – but will share the psychological tools and mindsets of influence and persuation that I learned and use to make my and your sales profitable. Next to the tools and strategies of influence I will also share my online business journey. I started KDP (Kindle publishing) recently. However I saw relativly fast that this isn’t nesserely a business I am interested in. I have one book online and another one in the making. I don’t have passion for the books that I outsourced for people to write me. That makes it just a hassle to work on that business because I am not commited to the product.

FIND A HIGH-QUALITY PRODUCT THAT YOU BELIEVE IN AND GET THE WORD OUT

There you have it. The formala to riches. The formula to every succes you want to get in life. If you don’t believe in your product you will not be able to market it. I can’t. Some people can. But that’s NOT most people. And it’s probably not you. It’s not me and that is why I don’t put my energs in kindle publishing anymore. You need to believe in your product and have some sort of passion for it. Otherwise you will be one of the 99% of people that quit the online business fast.
Amazon FBA is my current business model. It is one that suits my personality and my passion. I love sales since I’m a child. Passive imcome. Giving high-value products and offering them a kick ass service. Just writing about it keeps the fire in my going.

You will read everything about my journey here. So far I did some emailing and calling with amazon since there were some problems with my account. I negotiated a good deal with a chinese company that gave me good conditions for the product of my choice. The next step is getting the barcode and shipping labels from amazon as well as letting my designer put my business logo and the barcode together. Then I am ready for the sales.

If you want to start getting into sales, generating A LOT of (passive income, be finacially free and in charge of your life follow these simple steps:

1. Get a HIGH-QUALITY product
2. Get the word out

Thats it. It is really that simple. What’s stopping you from starting today?

Sales and Social Skills

The maybe most important things in life. At least in the times we live in. Fantastic times. Never have “soft skills” been so important as today. You have to learn to get along with your fellow human beings or you are lost.

If you really wanna go over the top and potentiolly contribute to how people will life in the future you will need to learn sales and persuation as well. Sell or be sold. Learn how to control the frame of reality or you will go into someone elses version of viewing the world. Be smart and make your own decisions. If you put the work in it, you can be who ever you want to be. And you can do whatever you want to do and influence the people around you to join your quest.

Until next time.

Staying Broke When Making Money

I am going to give you today the number one way to get rich. It is a step that you HAVE to follow if you want to have sustainable financial success in your life. Staying broke.

Probably everyone of us knows the feeling. We are getting a raise. We started a new business that gives us some extra money. Or won something gambleing. What do we do? Do we save it? Maybe. Maybe a small percentage of what we got. But certainly not a lot- And certainly not ALL of it.

How long do you want to take to actually get rich? To actually not worry about your finances anymore? To live the life of your dreams? You can get rich the slow way. Or you can do it the fast way. It is up to you. I suggest you to take the fast way to financial success.

“How do I take the fast way to financial success?”

You do it by staying BROKE. Notice I say broke not poor. You will massively increase your income. At the same time you will have the same expenses that you’ve ever had. Prefereably even lower ones!

Staying broke is the way to go. I did the same mistake each and every time I got money. I was spending it for useless shit. It didn’t matter how much money I made. At the end of the month I was alsways +/- 0 (after a modest amout of savings). My income increased and decreased during the year. The amount of money I had at the end of the month never did.

Until I decided to change something. I kept track of what I NEED to spend every month to have a decent life. Good (but fairly cheap) food, entrence for clubs, expenses for things like gym, transporation and mobile phone. I made sure those expenses are as low as possible.

Everything I made after my normal monthly expenses I SAVED. I didn’t spend the money, NO MATTER WHAT. My income increased and suddenly I had cashbundles laying around the house. Never violating my rule of staying broke.

If you ever want to have financial success. If you ever want to make and KEEP a lot of money, internalise the rule of staying broke! If you increase your income while staying broke at the same time you will get the financial success you desire in the shortest time possible.

If you like this post I HIGHLY encourage you to check out this book by Tony Robbins:

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Are you ready to get results?: Ulimited Power Book Review

The book that is currently with me on my journey is the book Unlimited Power : The New Science Of Personal Achievement, by Tony Robbins.

This book is a dime piece when it comes to the self-development and personal acchivement categorie.

I think that we all learn certain lessons when we are ready for them. So I did with this book. I read it already a couple years back. The book seemed to contain only fluff and no specific actionable advise to me. However, years went by and my perception changed. Now I consider this book a must-read for anyone who is serious about getting results.

CHANGE IS POSSIBLE

This is probably the best way to describe what Tony Robbins wants us to show with this book. Change is possible. You can become exactly the person that you want to be.

All you need is the right mindset and strategies to accomplish your goals. Tony Robbins gives you the strategies and mindsets that he modeled by watching successful people and studying what made them who they are.

How do we accomplish what we want:
• We need Power
•  Awereness of our thoughts and physiologie
• The right strategies

We need power. Power means nothing else then taking charge of your own life. Taking charge of your own actions and building your destiny yourself.
Power is the ability to take action.

You can influence and change what you do and feel by changing your thoughts and your physiologie. By redirecting your focus on something positive instead of something negative you can influence your destiny and take positive action instead of being overwhelmed by the circumstances. Use your physiologie in a way that commonicates confidence and certainty to your subconcious and you will feel exactly those emotions.

We need the right strategies to accomplish our goals. And the best way to get those strategies is to >model< the strategies from other people. Meaning we look at what people did that are already sucessful and take similar action as they.

Those are some of the lessons of Tony’s Book. I will write future articles about some other concepts of his book, as well as a complete book review.

Until then I HIGHLY recommend you to check out his complete book here!

Exactly How To Make Money with Kindle Ebook Publishing – My Current Project: Part 1 –

What up, what up..?

Recently I discovered a new way to make some extra cash online. I am interested in ways to make money online since a long time now. It wasn’t until recently that I actually KNEW that it is possible to make TONS of it online though.

(A friend of mine is involved in affiliate marketing and I was visiting him in his new penthouse apartment.)

While I did some research about different “making money online” stuff before. It wasn’t to that day that I knew this is what I will be doing in my future.

While Affiliate Marketing was in my heared now the general idea of making money online made me think of something I have heared a while ago now and never really followed up with:

Making money with kindle publishing – specifically: Selling erotica on Amazon

I did some reasearch about it to see what things I have to pay attention to when entering that niche.

I don’t want to have any work with my project. While writing is something that I enjoy, I am only really interested in it when it is for topics that I enjoy writing about or to build my brand.

Writing erotica is nothing I want to do at this moment. (Might be doing it in the future.)

So all the work has to be OUTSOURCED. I will do the marketing because I enjoy it. But all in all this Project will be nearly 100% PASSIVE INCOME.

How do you make money selling erotica

I will get more specific about this in a furure post. But right know jut a quick overview on how I started:

1. Research a couple authors and books that sell

What are some known names in the industry? What books are selling good? What books have good reviews? Why are people buying it?

2. Do the marketing

Yes, marketing is in the beginning. Because you are not selling only some random content. But emotions and an image. Who is the author that writes such an book? What is his/her motivation? What is this story all about?

Think about how you want to appear to the world:
– What is the image of you/your pen name?
– Why are you, or is he/she writing erotica?
– What is your book about?

3. Get someone to write the ebook for you

You will outsource the work on a platform for writers and freelancers. I choose Upwork to search for someone writing mine.

All I did was including the plot for the story I want to have written and the money that I want to spend.

Now it is waiting time and I have to see who is applying for the offer..

I will keep you up to date on how the project devellops, how long it will take to have the book written, the quality of the book and ultimatly how much money it will earn me..

.. so stay tuned..!

Also: Have you ever written/published your own book on Amazon Kindle or a similar Platform? What Gernre was it? How much did you make? I am interested to hear your stories!

Be congruent to the person you want to BECOME

If you aren’t where you want to be in life. When you don’t get the results that you want to have, then it is time to change something. You need to BECOME someone else. Only then you can also GET what you want.

Change is hard though. Everything in your body will resist that change. You will procrastinate and trick yourself into believing that you are “taking action”. Even though all you do is sitting around watching YouTube.

Strong commitment is required to make lasting change. You act now through the person you want to be. That is how you actually become that person.

How to make lasting change:
1. Know who you want to be
2. Behave like you already are that person

Fake it till you make it is the sentence to internalise in this case.

How to make money in the future – Building your own brand

Money is a topic that everyone is concerned with. After all, what is as important as money? Good relationships and health one could answer to that question. However I doubt you can sustain a good relationship to your kids when you don’t make enough money to feed them. I doubt it is good for your mental health when you live paycheck to paycheck and have the constant worry of getting replaced at your job.

These days everyone has to TAKE CHARGE of their own life. No one else will support you. You are on your own. And you have to be an creative and active thinker to strive in this chaotic world we live in.

You need different income streams for sure. Otherwise you won’t make it. Sources of income streams would be:
• a job
• real estate that you own and rent out
• stocks
• bonds
• your own business

A specific form of a way that EVERYONE can make their own money is something that I like to call YOU.INC. That is, building your own brand that revolves around your personality, your passions and your interest.

The good thing about building a business like that is that no one can really replace you. There is only one person in the world that is you. And that is YOU.

What do you need to build an YOU.INC:
1. Be yourself
2. Live a life
3. Express yourself so people can find you (Blog or Youtube)
4. Learn to market yourself to people
5. Sell a product or service

It is that simple. Build your personality. Know what you want and what you stand for. Then you will have a message to share. You share this message with people and learn to market yourself in a good way. More and more people will follow your message and want to be a part of you and your project. At the end you can sell your product or service to people. When they love you, they will also love to support you with their money. There are Youtubers and Bloggers that make MILLIONS these days. Even if this might not be your goal. Supplementing your income by having your own business that revolvs around being you is something that you can be pround of and have some fun with. Start today. Build a website. Build a blog. Learn what your readers want and market it to them. Then lean back and count your cash.

Publishing videos is very simple. Simply create an account and start filming.

The best platform to upload videos is:

https://www.youtube.com/

If you want to start a blog. And you certainly should have one. Whether it is your main way to reach people or just a supplement to your channel. Everyone should “own their own name” on the internet.

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New economy – We are all getting replaced

Time is changing. So is the world. Everything is faster these days. And everything is different too. There is no other place where this development is as obvious as in the job market. With the internet the old economy as we knew it will not exist for to long anymore. Jobs will not be the same because everything today happens in the internet.

The first cars that drive themselves are out already. Meaning that no one will need people to drive a taxi anymore in the near future. You don’t need to pay someone to drive you if the car can do it by itself.

This development happens and will continue to happen everywhere. Why would you go shopping when you can buy everything on the internet?

And the jobs that are still there will be outsourced to people who do a better job for a smaller amout of money.

I hope you learned to fill out documents in your university classes. Because soon you will need this skill to fill out the papers for your unemployment benefits..

We live in a great time. A chaotic time. With as much opportunity as never before. But to get anything out of it you have to change your thinking today and make progress every single day.

The time to take action is now. Take charge of your live and you will accomplish tremendous things.