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Masculinity defined – How to Become a MAN in a feminised society

Becomming a man is what you NEED to do. When you read those words that I am typing at this moment then you need to. There is a reason you found me. And there is a reason those words found you.

Something in your life is not going the way it should. Maybe you can’t point your finger on what it is but there is certainly something that is not right. It is the lack of masculine Energy in your life. The lack of masculinity. The lack of direction.

What is your life worth living for?

If you are like most man, probably not much. You NEED to find your path/ purpose/ direction in life. Otherwise your Life will be dead and meaningless.

Suggestions on how to find your purpose in life:
– Self discovery: Discover yourself. Travel where you want. Follow your calling and go whereever your heart tells you to go. Life a life where you are actually ALLIVE, and not only a dead shell.
– Write your life down: It is valueble to track what you do on a daily basis. Write a Blog, a diary or just some short stories. You will discover sides of yourself that you weren’t even aware of. Follow your emotions and what they tell you. Accept what happened and be exited for the future adventures that you will take
– What do your emotions tell you: Are you focused on the outside world? Or on your inner feelings? Your emotions and your own energy. If you spend to much time in the outer world you let the option of others and outside circumstances define who you are. Don’t get lost in that trap. Listen to yourself first, before you listen to anyone else. Discover your own emotions and feel inside your body for at least 10 minutes a day.

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How To Keep Your Valuebles Safe – Stash Your Cash

It is human nature wanting to have the ability to hide certain things and keep them at a place where no one (especially strangers) are unable to find them. For me this was certainly always the case. When I was younger I was always looking out for places where no one would expect to find certain things. And I was always very pround when I found a nice hideout.

Things didn’t change when I got older. Just the hideouts did. I want to be as open and transperent as possible. The more you are in alignment with yourself, the less you have to hide. The less nervous you get when your friends or family want to check what you have in your shelf, your phone (or your browser history). The less of a creap you are the less you get in panic when someone takes your phone in his hands (and the less you have to clean your browser history).

However there is things you dont want people to have an imidiate look at or get their hands one and soon as they enter your room. Money would be an example. Other things would be an example as well. Having good places to stash what’s impostant to you and what you don’t necessarily want everyone to see are mandatory. Here you have a couple of things that keep your secrets a secret.

May Vary – Book Diversion Safe

First things first. If you have a couple boos laying around this gadget is perfect for you. It has a good size to hide a good amount of stuff in it. You can easily fit youpassport in it, put some bank cards into it and stash your cash. Its pretty much invisible if you put it next to your other books. Especially when its on the bottom of your shelf. Or even better. Put some of your old books in a box and put this book with your stahed valuebles in it. No one will ever find it and you will have it ready when the time comes.

Phillips Head Screwdriver Security Container – Diversion Safe Stash Safe

Another amazing gadget to hide your stuff is this realistic looking screwdriver. You open it and you can put your stuff inside. In comparison to the book this screwdriver is better for smaller things. You wont be able to hide your ID or your bank card in it. This Safe is perfect for pills, powders or smaller amounts of cash.

Note: While the screwdriver looks very realistic you can not actually use it to screw. Put it next to some tools and no one will see a difference though.



Lighter Stash Spot Diversion Safe

No one will notice that this little lighter is in fact meant to keep your things hidden. It is perfect for useing it for smaller things. Once you get used to it you don’t want to put your hands off of it ever again. I barely leave my house without this lighter anymore. You can use it to hide powders, little notes or pills in it. It is not meant for paper money even id the piture suggests otherwise.

Can Diversion Stash Container + Free Pack of 1 1/4 Rasta Wrap

Love this one. It looks like regular industrial oil and is pretty much invisible when you put it next to other household items. Smear a little bit of oil on the box and it will make it look even more realistic. You can fit a lot of your valuebles inside and it is perfect for using it to keep your jewellery, ID or your cash hidden. No one will assume that this little box is in fact a stash for your secret things.

The Importance Of Sales And Finding Your Purpose

Sales is important. Probably one of (if not the) most important things in life. Sales and negotiation is what you do each and every day. You can’t escape it. Unless you are a buddist monk or live withdrawn from society as a hermit you are surround by sales each and every day.

Negotiation starts when you are very young. You want your parents to buy you that delicious looking icecream even though they want you to get away from the sweets. As you get older your values are changing. You want to stay out longer. You want more pocket money and drive the car of your parents.

If you are applying for a new job you better know how to sell yourself. If you can’t then better be prepared flipping burgers for a living or at least working in a position that is far below your potential and actual skills.

How you sell yourself, how you communicate your ideas and values to others is in direct relation to what you will get out of life. And besides the importance of Sales and negotiation people are to busy numbing down themselves watching television and distracting themselves with short internet clips and other adrenaline shots. (I hope I’m not talking about you!)

Personally Sales is my passion. I want to share my passion with you and hope you get a lot of Ideas and concepts to integrate in your own life and increase the quality of your life drasticly. Do you know your passion? I discovered mine recently. I will tell you specfics about it in an future post. What I want to tell you so far is that knowing your lifes purpose is an amazingly life enhanceing feeling.You feel on a mission. You know what do do on a daily basis. Progres is what makes you happy. And you are not a leave in the wind anymore. (I’ve been most of my life and I hated it!)

I am in the Sales Business.Not an expert by any means. Thats not a bad thing though as I will document my journey as open and transparent as possible. You are a part of my journey. The Internet as big. And people get together, share there experiences and are able to profit from each other in a win-win situation. I strongly hope that I increase your life quality with the post I write (as with podcasts and videos that I will most likely do in the future).

I have different businesses going on. Some I will not directly write about – offline businesses – but will share the psychological tools and mindsets of influence and persuation that I learned and use to make my and your sales profitable. Next to the tools and strategies of influence I will also share my online business journey. I started KDP (Kindle publishing) recently. However I saw relativly fast that this isn’t nesserely a business I am interested in. I have one book online and another one in the making. I don’t have passion for the books that I outsourced for people to write me. That makes it just a hassle to work on that business because I am not commited to the product.

FIND A HIGH-QUALITY PRODUCT THAT YOU BELIEVE IN AND GET THE WORD OUT

There you have it. The formala to riches. The formula to every succes you want to get in life. If you don’t believe in your product you will not be able to market it. I can’t. Some people can. But that’s NOT most people. And it’s probably not you. It’s not me and that is why I don’t put my energs in kindle publishing anymore. You need to believe in your product and have some sort of passion for it. Otherwise you will be one of the 99% of people that quit the online business fast.
Amazon FBA is my current business model. It is one that suits my personality and my passion. I love sales since I’m a child. Passive imcome. Giving high-value products and offering them a kick ass service. Just writing about it keeps the fire in my going.

You will read everything about my journey here. So far I did some emailing and calling with amazon since there were some problems with my account. I negotiated a good deal with a chinese company that gave me good conditions for the product of my choice. The next step is getting the barcode and shipping labels from amazon as well as letting my designer put my business logo and the barcode together. Then I am ready for the sales.

If you want to start getting into sales, generating A LOT of (passive income, be finacially free and in charge of your life follow these simple steps:

1. Get a HIGH-QUALITY product
2. Get the word out

Thats it. It is really that simple. What’s stopping you from starting today?

Sales and Social Skills

The maybe most important things in life. At least in the times we live in. Fantastic times. Never have “soft skills” been so important as today. You have to learn to get along with your fellow human beings or you are lost.

If you really wanna go over the top and potentiolly contribute to how people will life in the future you will need to learn sales and persuation as well. Sell or be sold. Learn how to control the frame of reality or you will go into someone elses version of viewing the world. Be smart and make your own decisions. If you put the work in it, you can be who ever you want to be. And you can do whatever you want to do and influence the people around you to join your quest.

Until next time.

Are you ready to get results?: Ulimited Power Book Review

The book that is currently with me on my journey is the book Unlimited Power : The New Science Of Personal Achievement, by Tony Robbins.

This book is a dime piece when it comes to the self-development and personal acchivement categorie.

I think that we all learn certain lessons when we are ready for them. So I did with this book. I read it already a couple years back. The book seemed to contain only fluff and no specific actionable advise to me. However, years went by and my perception changed. Now I consider this book a must-read for anyone who is serious about getting results.

CHANGE IS POSSIBLE

This is probably the best way to describe what Tony Robbins wants us to show with this book. Change is possible. You can become exactly the person that you want to be.

All you need is the right mindset and strategies to accomplish your goals. Tony Robbins gives you the strategies and mindsets that he modeled by watching successful people and studying what made them who they are.

How do we accomplish what we want:
• We need Power
•  Awereness of our thoughts and physiologie
• The right strategies

We need power. Power means nothing else then taking charge of your own life. Taking charge of your own actions and building your destiny yourself.
Power is the ability to take action.

You can influence and change what you do and feel by changing your thoughts and your physiologie. By redirecting your focus on something positive instead of something negative you can influence your destiny and take positive action instead of being overwhelmed by the circumstances. Use your physiologie in a way that commonicates confidence and certainty to your subconcious and you will feel exactly those emotions.

We need the right strategies to accomplish our goals. And the best way to get those strategies is to >model< the strategies from other people. Meaning we look at what people did that are already sucessful and take similar action as they.

Those are some of the lessons of Tony’s Book. I will write future articles about some other concepts of his book, as well as a complete book review.

Until then I HIGHLY recommend you to check out his complete book here!

Be congruent to the person you want to BECOME

If you aren’t where you want to be in life. When you don’t get the results that you want to have, then it is time to change something. You need to BECOME someone else. Only then you can also GET what you want.

Change is hard though. Everything in your body will resist that change. You will procrastinate and trick yourself into believing that you are “taking action”. Even though all you do is sitting around watching YouTube.

Strong commitment is required to make lasting change. You act now through the person you want to be. That is how you actually become that person.

How to make lasting change:
1. Know who you want to be
2. Behave like you already are that person

Fake it till you make it is the sentence to internalise in this case.

New economy – We are all getting replaced

Time is changing. So is the world. Everything is faster these days. And everything is different too. There is no other place where this development is as obvious as in the job market. With the internet the old economy as we knew it will not exist for to long anymore. Jobs will not be the same because everything today happens in the internet.

The first cars that drive themselves are out already. Meaning that no one will need people to drive a taxi anymore in the near future. You don’t need to pay someone to drive you if the car can do it by itself.

This development happens and will continue to happen everywhere. Why would you go shopping when you can buy everything on the internet?

And the jobs that are still there will be outsourced to people who do a better job for a smaller amout of money.

I hope you learned to fill out documents in your university classes. Because soon you will need this skill to fill out the papers for your unemployment benefits..

We live in a great time. A chaotic time. With as much opportunity as never before. But to get anything out of it you have to change your thinking today and make progress every single day.

The time to take action is now. Take charge of your live and you will accomplish tremendous things.

The Millionaire Fastlane by M.J. DeMarco

Since having a new determined mission of making my first million online (as well as sleeping wih 100 chicks), I am currently reading “the millionaire fastlane”, by M.J. DeMarco. I found this book an Victor Pride’s Blog Bold and Determined as a recommendation. I need something to get started. Having my own Blog is a good start. This Book is a good way to get started as well. I have read 3 chapters so far and I already think this book is genius.

What I learned so far:
– There is a slow way and a (relatively) fast way to get rich: A slowlane and a fastlane
– The slowlane is what most success books and gurus recommend: Work, safe money and invest that money
– With that spproach you only get rich by the time you are old and not able to enjoy it as much anymore
– The fastlane is the new way of making money: Creating a way of getting income whether you work, sleep, eat or do whatever
– When you hear about success stories you only hear about the eventual outcome, not the long process behind it
– On your on road to success you have to focus on the process!
The book is really inspirational and insightful. This here is written in my little reading break.

If you want more check out the entire book:

The Millionaire Fastlane: Crack the Code to Wealth and Live Rich for a Lifetime.

New direction of this Blog

A big reason why I started this Blog is to try somthing new and to be active with something. I did not really had any bigger ambitions when I decided to reserve the domain that I have. Get started and everything else will fall into place, right? Right!

Because so it did. My Blog will have a new direction. I was really unfocused in what I want. My bi-polar tendencies are part of the reason. I often start something. Then get emotional over it and just quit what I did before. There is only two things in life that I just quit temporarely. Girls and Business. Because those things (along with health) are the areas where EVERYONE needs to step it up if one wants to have a fullfilled life.

Because of the anti-depressents my doctor prescribed me I had intense side-effects the entire week. I couldn’t eat. I couldn’t sleep. And I was really intense and paranoid all the time. It was impossible to have a normal conversation with me.

The side-effects started to wear off as I lowered the dosage though. I do feel better at the moment. And I am certainly more focused. Even though my social motivation is really low as I am typing these words.
There is two things that I will do in life before I die:

1. Having slept with 100 girls
2. Made a million bucks

And when I say “in my life” I certainly mean before I hit 30 (I am turning 23 soon). There is nothing that is stopping me. Theoreticly. Because I am a pretty damaged and fragile person. But I am pretty smart too. Look decent. And have a lot of potential. When I play my cards right, I can accomplish anything I want. Especially now that I took something into consideration that I never dreamed of doing before in my life: A psychotherapie and anti-depressents. I am on Sertralin since around a week and will get my psychotherapie approved soon. I think both are necessary for me and so far I have decent results from it.

This Blog will be a documentation about how I will accomplish both of my goals. So it is like a diary. Sometimes it might include random stuff of my life. Other times progress and reports about what I do. I will split my big goal into smaller ones. Something that I can accomplish this year for example. So it’s easier to keep track of what I do and see if I make progress. I am not really an expert in time-management or goal setting (or anything else). So I will out most of it along the way. Feel free to join me on my Journey.

Sertralin – Antidepressents

I am officially on antidepressents now. Sertralin is the medication I get. The diagnose I got is bi-polar disorder. It makes sense. Because I had really harsh mood swings since I am around 16 years old. Turning from someone that  felt ugly and having extremly low self-esteem to someone who is overly self-confidcent and talks about nothing but how he is the shit and will conquer the world. I am 5 days into taking my medication. And I have already some observations about the medicament. Especially regarding it’s side effects.
I took my first pill on the 14.06 at 16 o’clock. Around 30 – 60 minutes later I already felt some of its effects. I felt numb and weird. I couldn’t really talk and couldn’t really smile normally. Later I became massive mood swings. A friend of mine told me that I appear as if I took some drugs like ecstasy or ketamin. I had to laugh for no reason all the time.

Yesterday I took a walk through the city with a friend. I couln’t talk normally. Every time I said something it felt really weird and unnatural. Most of the time I was not talking at all and just felt weird.

Today I started with a lower dosis then usual. My normal dosis was 50 mg. Today I started with 25 mg. I upped the dosis a few hours later. I had the normal dose of 50 mg in my body again. Later I upped it once more. So I had 75 mg of sertralin in my body. The medication throw me off completly. I was tired as never before and slept as if someone drugged me. Two hours later I woke up. It felt like I was sleeping for ages though. Right now I am feeling better then the last days. Still kind of weird though.

Since starting to take this medicament 4 days ago I have had intense mood swings that switch every hour, no appetite that was followed by an really intense appetite, insomia and feeling weak the entire day. I also felt barely any emotions. No matter what I was doing. And I can not have a basic conversation. Which is rather unusual for me because I normally talk quite a lot.